Years ago, the MBSI developed a standard etiquette to use when
visiting a member's home and listening to their instruments.  It is
something that I use when visitor's come to listen to my instruments.
The etiquette is as follows:

  Viewing Etiquette When Visiting Collections

Most of us know what to do, and what not to do when visiting a
collection.  Although we may own similar pieces, some instruments can
be unique in the way they operate.  Of course there can be various
stages of restoration or operating order so remember these common-sense
rules when visiting collections:

- Always ask the host if photographs or video may be taken.  If you
intend to publish these photographs/videos, please get the host's
permission to do so and ask whether the host wants the collection
identified.

- Do not smoke inside the home and ask permission to smoke outside the
home on the owner's property.

- Never bring food or drink near any of the instruments.

- "Hands Off" is the best policy and beware of belt buckles and other
objects that could cause damage.

- Do not play any instrument unless given permission by the host to do
so.  It is always best if the host turns on the instrument -- some of
them can be pretty finicky.

- Never try to adjust or repair an instrument unless asked to do so by
the host.

- Do not ask the host or instrument owner the value of an instrument
or how much it would cost to purchase one.  Several mechanical music
dealers are listed on the MBSI web site and they could be contacted for
guidance about a particular instrument.

- Unless an instrument is marked "For Sale" don't ask the host if
a particular instrument can be purchased.  After attending a meeting,
please send a note of appreciation.  In the note you could express
admiration for a particular instrument and advise the host of your
potential interest should it ever become available.

- Meeting hosts generously open their homes and collections to members.
Be sure to introduce yourself to them and sign any guest book.  Thank
the hosts when you leave and a thank you note would be most welcome.

- When instruments are being played, please refrain from talking.
This is especially true when softly voiced instruments (such as musical
boxes, bird boxes, etc.) are being played.

Dave Corkrum